Translation guide
To try to persuade someone to act or think more logically, or to discuss something calmly in order to reach an agreement.
To convince someone to change their mind or behavior by presenting logical arguments.
The most direct and common way to say 'reason with' in the sense of persuading someone through explanation or argument.
彼を説得して、その計画をやめさせた。
I reasoned with him and got him to abandon the plan.
Literally 'to explain reason/logic'. Used when you are trying to make someone understand the rational side of an issue.
感情的になっている友人に理を説いた。
I reasoned with my emotional friend.
To have a rational discussion with someone in order to resolve a disagreement or make a decision.
There is no single Japanese verb that covers all uses of 'reason with'. Translating it literally as 理由を付けて話す (りゆうをつけてはなす) sounds unnatural. Choose the option that best fits the context: persuasion or calm discussion.
To talk someone into understanding or accepting something, often used with children or when someone is being stubborn.
子供に危険性を言い聞かせた。
I reasoned with the child about the danger.
A general term for talking things over. It implies a mutual exchange aimed at understanding or resolution.
冷静に話し合おう。
Let's reason with each other calmly.
Emphasizes a rational, emotion-free discussion. Useful when contrasting with emotional arguments.
感情的にならず、理性的に話し合うことが大切だ。
It's important to reason with each other without getting emotional.