expression, godan verb (-bu)
choose one's words carefully; be careful with one's words
Used when someone deliberately selects words to avoid offense, misunderstanding, or to be tactful. Often implies sensitivity to the listener or situation.
彼はいつも言葉を選んで話す。
He always chooses his words carefully when he speaks.
上司の前では言葉を選ばなければ
You have to be careful with your words in front of your boss.