i-adjective
patronizing; condescending; acting like one is doing someone a favor
Describes a person or behavior that makes the recipient feel indebted or looked down upon, as if the speaker is constantly reminding them of a favor. Often used critically.
See also: 恩に着せる
彼の恩着せがましい態度にはうんざりだ。
I'm fed up with his patronizing attitude.
そんな
Please don't say it in such a condescending way.